Worry postponement

Park worries for a scheduled window

15 min

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Why postponing worry works

Contains worry

A defined window keeps worry from leaking into every hour.

Cognitive off-load

Parking a worry frees the working memory it was hogging.

More present moments

You get your afternoons and evenings back.

Proven for GAD

Stimulus-control approach with 30+ years of clinical support.

The Borkovec stimulus-control method

Thomas Borkovec's classic worry-control protocol has four steps: (1) learn to identify worry, (2) postpone worries to a set daily worry time, (3) during the day, briefly note the worry and return to the present, (4) during your worry window, actively engage with the worries. Meta-analyses show it reduces worry frequency by 30–60% within 4 weeks.

15m
daily window
4 wks
typical results
↓30–60%
worry frequency

How to run it

  1. 1

    Pick a fixed 15-minute worry window — early evening usually works well, but not right before bed.

  2. 2

    Throughout the day, when a worry arises, park it here and return to what you were doing.

  3. 3

    When the window opens, read your list and let yourself worry actively — don't distract.

  4. 4

    Notice: many worries have already faded, resolved, or look smaller. Cross those off.

  5. 5

    When the 15 minutes end, close the notebook — worry time is over until tomorrow.

Tips that help

  • Worry window should NOT be within 2 hours of bedtime.
  • If a genuine urgent action shows up, do it now — parking is for rumination, not real tasks.
  • Keep a paper or notes-app 'parking lot' beside you all day.
  • It feels weird for a week; trust the practice — expect real change by week 3.

Common questions

What if I can't stop worrying between windows?+

That's expected at first. Each time, gently return the worry to the parking list. The 'not now' repetition is the skill you're training.

What if I miss my window?+

Skip it — don't double up. Consistency of the timing matters more than catching every day.

Is this suppression?+

No. You're not blocking the worry — you're rescheduling it. That's the crucial difference from thought suppression, which backfires.

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